How to use sex toys can make intimacy more exciting and pleasurable, but if used incorrectly, they can sometimes cause discomfort or pain. The good news is with the right approach you can enjoy them safely and comfortably.
1. Choose the Right Toy
Pick a toy that matches your comfort level and experience. Beginners should start with smaller, softer toys made of body-safe materials like silicone. Avoid rough or sharp edges.
2. Clean Before Use
Always wash your toy with warm water and mild soap (or a recommended toy cleaner) before and after each use. This keeps it safe and hygienic, preventing irritation or infections.
3. Use Plenty of Lubricant
Friction can cause discomfort, so apply a good quality, body-safe lubricant. For silicone toys, use water-based lube. For glass or metal toys, you can use silicone or water-based lube. Reapply if it starts to dry out.
4. Go Slow
Start gently, especially if it’s your first time or you’re trying a new toy. Let your body relax and respond naturally. Rushing can cause unnecessary pain or strain.
5. Listen to Your Body
If you feel pain, stop immediately. Mild discomfort can sometimes be due to tension or dryness, but sharp or lasting pain means something isn’t right.
6. Position & Relaxation
Find a comfortable position where your body feels relaxed. Being tense can make insertion or movement more uncomfortable.
7. Check for Allergies
Some people are sensitive to certain materials. If you notice redness, itching, or swelling, stop using the toy and switch to a hypoallergenic option.
Bottom Line:
Sex toys are meant to enhance pleasure, not cause pain. With the right toy, lubrication, patience, and attention to your body, you can explore safely and enjoyably.
